Quick answer
Use a safe, lawful arrangement consistent with all orders.
Do now
Make a short list of essentials and ownership documents. Ask an advocate, lawyer, or authorized police channel whether a supervised or court-approved retrieval is available. Confirm the time, scope, and persons allowed to attend.
Watch for
Do not enter simply because you still have a key or believe you own the property. A protection order may restrict entry and indirect contact. Emergency essentials and disputed property may require different arrangements.
Official sources
NJ Courts — Domestic Violence, NY Courts — Domestic Violence / Family Offense, DC Courts — Domestic Violence Division.
