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Can we use one lawyer for both of us?

General information for New Jersey, New York and Washington, DC · Last updated

Quick answer

Clarify whom the professional represents. A mediator, document preparer, or one spouse’s lawyer does not automatically represent both spouses.

Do now

Read the engagement agreement and ask directly about representation, confidentiality, fees, and independent review. Arrange separate advice if you need someone to assess your own interests.

Watch for

Agreement between spouses today does not remove every possible conflict. Do not sign based only on “the lawyer said it is standard” without understanding the document and the lawyer’s role.

Official sources

NJ Courts — Representing Yourself, NY Courts — Divorce frequently asked questions, DC Courts — Get Legal Help.

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