Quick answer
Clarify whom the professional represents. A mediator, document preparer, or one spouse’s lawyer does not automatically represent both spouses.
Do now
Read the engagement agreement and ask directly about representation, confidentiality, fees, and independent review. Arrange separate advice if you need someone to assess your own interests.
Watch for
Agreement between spouses today does not remove every possible conflict. Do not sign based only on “the lawyer said it is standard” without understanding the document and the lawyer’s role.
Official sources
NJ Courts — Representing Yourself, NY Courts — Divorce frequently asked questions, DC Courts — Get Legal Help.
