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My spouse refuses to agree to a divorce

General information for New Jersey, New York and Washington, DC · Last updated

Quick answer

Refusal to sign does not necessarily prevent a divorce, but you must follow the applicable grounds, service, and court procedures.

Do now

Separate disagreement about ending the marriage from disagreements about money and children. Ask about contested procedures and lawful service. Keep evidence of attempts to obtain information through proper channels.

Watch for

Do not forge a signature, misstate an address, or assume silence means consent. A contested case can require financial disclosure and hearings even where no-fault grounds are available.

Official sources

NJ Courts — Divorce, NY Courts — Divorce frequently asked questions, DC Courts — Divorce.

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