Quick answer
Preserve lawful evidence and seek prompt advice about disclosure and temporary court relief.
Do now
Save statements showing balances and transactions, account ownership information, and a factual timeline. Identify immediate needs for food, housing, and bills. Tell your lawyer about any existing automatic orders or restraints.
Watch for
Do not hack accounts, impersonate a spouse, or retaliate by hiding your own assets. NY automatic orders may restrict financial changes, but their scope and binding dates need review.
Official sources
NY Courts — Matrimonial actions: automatic orders, NJ Courts — Divorce, DC Courts — Divorce, National Domestic Violence Hotline — Plan for Safety.
