Quick answer
Understand every term, missing issue, and required follow-up before signing.
Do now
Request the full proposed document and a clear explanation of deadlines. Check property transfers, debts, retirement, support, insurance, parenting, taxes, and enforcement terms. Seek independent legal review. If intimidation or abuse affects your ability to decide, tell your lawyer or the court through a safe channel.
Watch for
A signed settlement can be difficult to undo. Do not assume there is a universal cooling-off period.
Official sources
NJ Courts — Divorce, NY Courts — Divorce frequently asked questions, DC Courts — Divorce, National Domestic Violence Hotline — Plan for Safety.
