Quick answer
The wedding location does not by itself determine where you can divorce. Residency and jurisdiction requirements matter.
Do now
List where each spouse lived and for how long, where the marriage took place, and where the children and property are. Obtain the marriage certificate and translations if needed. Check the local residency alternatives before filing.
Watch for
Authority to end a marriage does not always mean authority over an absent spouse’s finances or the children. International marriages and foreign orders need individual review.
Official sources
NJ Courts — Divorce, NY Courts — Divorce frequently asked questions, DC Code § 16-902 — Residency.
