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More child custody and parenting time situations

• Child custody and parenting time: where to start in NJ, NY and DC “Custody” can refer to decision-making authority, the child’s residence, or both. “Parenting time” and “visitation” describe time with a child. Equal time…
• A parent appears intoxicated at an exchange Focus on immediate child safety and observable facts.
• We disagree about legal custody versus where the child lives Decision-making authority and the schedule of residence are separate subjects.
• We keep arguing at child exchanges Specific exchange arrangements can reduce conflict and protect children from adult disputes.
• We need our first parenting schedule Start with the child’s routines and practical needs, then obtain the appropriate legal arrangement.
• The other parent is refusing my scheduled time Document the problem and use the enforcement process; avoid escalating the exchange.
• We disagree about holidays, summer or birthdays Check whether special-day provisions override the regular schedule and whether odd/even years are defined.
• We live in different states; which court handles custody? Custody jurisdiction follows specialized rules; it is not simply whichever parent files first.

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