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We need our first parenting schedule

General information for New Jersey, New York and Washington, DC · Last updated

Quick answer

Start with the child’s routines and practical needs, then obtain the appropriate legal arrangement.

Do now

List school, childcare, medical needs, work schedules, travel time, holidays, and exchange locations. Identify unresolved legal parentage. Propose specific times and transportation duties rather than “reasonable visits” alone.

Watch for

An informal schedule may not be enforceable like an order. Safety concerns, existing cases, and interstate issues need review before a standard schedule is used.

Official sources

NJ Courts — Initial FD application packet, NY Courts — Starting a Case in Family Court, DC Courts — Family Court Self-Help Center, NY Courts — Custody and Visitation.

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