Quick answer
Organize facts around the child’s needs and the specific decisions the court must make.
Do now
Bring current orders, a concise timeline, a realistic proposed plan, relevant records, and required financial information. Confirm witness and exhibit procedures. Arrange childcare, transport, language assistance, and a private location if appearing remotely.
Watch for
Do not bring a child to testify unless directed or advised through proper procedures. Insults and speculation distract from relevant evidence. Missing a hearing can affect the outcome.
Official sources
NJ Courts — Representing Yourself, NY Courts — Custody and Visitation, DC Courts — Family Court Self-Help Center.
