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I need to prepare for a custody hearing

General information for New Jersey, New York and Washington, DC · Last updated

Quick answer

Organize facts around the child’s needs and the specific decisions the court must make.

Do now

Bring current orders, a concise timeline, a realistic proposed plan, relevant records, and required financial information. Confirm witness and exhibit procedures. Arrange childcare, transport, language assistance, and a private location if appearing remotely.

Watch for

Do not bring a child to testify unless directed or advised through proper procedures. Insults and speculation distract from relevant evidence. Missing a hearing can affect the outcome.

Official sources

NJ Courts — Representing Yourself, NY Courts — Custody and Visitation, DC Courts — Family Court Self-Help Center.

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