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I need to present messages or a parenting log in court

General information for New Jersey, New York and Washington, DC · Last updated

Quick answer

Reliable, complete records are more useful than a large collection of accusations.

Do now

Keep original messages and exports where safely available. Record dates, times, and factual events in a chronology. Preserve context and identify witnesses. Ask the court about exhibit submission, redaction, and remote-hearing requirements.

Watch for

Evidence rules still apply. Do not edit originals, publish a child’s records, illegally record conversations, or assume screenshots automatically prove their contents.

Official sources

NJ Courts — Representing Yourself, NY Courts — Custody and Visitation, DC Courts — Family Court Self-Help Center.

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