Quick answer
Obtain the order from the court that issued it; a screenshot or recollection may omit important terms.
Do now
Locate the court, county, parties’ names at the time, approximate date, and case number if available. Ask the clerk about access restrictions, identification, fees, and certified copies. Keep a separate list of later amendments.
Watch for
Family records can be restricted. Do not upload private child, medical, financial, or address information to a public website while asking for help.
Official sources
NJ Courts — Representing Yourself, NY Courts — Starting a Case in Family Court, DC Courts — Family Court Self-Help Center.
