Quick answer
Offer practical, nonjudgmental support while respecting their safety and choices.
Do now
Ask how and when it is safe to communicate. Offer contact with an advocate, transport, or secure document storage if wanted. Call emergency services for immediate danger. Learn about technology monitoring before sending resources to a shared device.
Watch for
Confronting the abusive person, announcing a plan, or publicly posting details can increase danger. Do not promise confidentiality you cannot maintain or pressure the person to follow a fixed timetable.
Official sources
National Domestic Violence Hotline — Plan for Safety, National Domestic Violence Hotline — Internet Safety.
