I want help but do not want to make a police report

More domestic violence and protection orders situations

• There are threats and control but no physical injury You can seek safety help without a visible injury. Eligibility for a legal order requires local assessment of the conduct and circumstances.
• Someone I know may be experiencing abuse Offer practical, nonjudgmental support while respecting their safety and choices.
• I think my phone, email or location is being monitored Use a safer device or account to seek help. Private browsing does not eliminate monitoring.
• We work together or attend the same school A safety plan may need workplace or school measures in addition to a court order.
• Someone is repeatedly following or contacting me Repeated unwanted conduct can require a safety plan and assessment for stalking or other protection.
• Domestic violence and protection orders: where to start in NJ, NY and DC Abuse can involve threats, stalking, sexual violence, coercion, financial control, or technology misuse; a person does not need visible bruises before seeking…
• I have a final protection-order hearing soon Prepare for the specific hearing; temporary relief does not automatically become final relief.
• There are weapons or threats of lethal violence Treat imminent threats as an emergency. Tell responders and advocates about weapons and specific threats.

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