Quick answer
For immediate threats, call emergency services. Otherwise preserve the conduct and ask about reporting and enforcement.
Do now
Keep the complete order available. Record the date, time, contact, location, witnesses, and any report number. Contact the appropriate police or court channel and seek advocate support for a revised safety plan.
Watch for
Do not respond in a way that increases danger. An invitation or reconciliation does not necessarily change the order. Enforcement depends on the facts and terms; arrest or a particular outcome is not guaranteed.
Official sources
NJ Courts — Domestic Violence, NY Courts — Domestic Violence / Family Offense, DC Courts — Domestic Violence Division.
