Quick answer
Nonparents face requirements different from those governing disputes between legal parents.
Do now
Document the relationship, caregiving history, existing orders, and specific child-related concern. Ask a local lawyer about standing and the required showing before filing. Explain whether a parent has died, is unavailable, or has consented.
Watch for
A close bond does not automatically establish a right to court-ordered time. Avoid promising a child that a petition will succeed.
Official sources
NY Courts — Family Issues and Divorce, NY Courts — Custody and Visitation, DC Courts — Family Court Self-Help Center.
