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A grandparent or nonparent wants visitation or custody

General information for New Jersey, New York and Washington, DC · Last updated

Quick answer

Nonparents face requirements different from those governing disputes between legal parents.

Do now

Document the relationship, caregiving history, existing orders, and specific child-related concern. Ask a local lawyer about standing and the required showing before filing. Explain whether a parent has died, is unavailable, or has consented.

Watch for

A close bond does not automatically establish a right to court-ordered time. Avoid promising a child that a petition will succeed.

Official sources

NY Courts — Family Issues and Divorce, NY Courts — Custody and Visitation, DC Courts — Family Court Self-Help Center.

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